Out of
everything I have been through in my life, and trying to make sense of who are
my true friends or not and among everything else, It is a hard thing to for
some to make sense of it all. In life you will encounter so many different
types of people and you will meet all sorts of people, but not everyone will be
your friend. You just talk to people, not knowing their name or where they come
from. It happens in spontaneous moments when you’re out in public, when you are
traveling and people in school, work, or other places. Some people come into
your life for a few minutes, you will meet and talk to someone for an hour or
half an hour or whatever the case maybe, and then you part your ways. It’s
happened to me a lot and it is pretty cool that way too. You talk to someone
and then you never see them again, but I remember once talking to someone at a
coffee shop and then I saw that same person again 3 weeks later. We ended up
coming in at the same time. I am a person who never forgets faces and who never
forgets whom I have spoken with in person. She remembered me too. We had a few
minutes conversation and that was it, and we parted our ways. We haven’t seen
each other since, but maybe we will again. It is incredible how things happen
in such a way where people who can relate to things end up meeting and talking,
but then never really become friends. I love spontaneity and things that just
happen without planning. I feel that is one of the best ways to go.
You
sort of have a gut instinct in you when the time is right and when the person
is right to make friends with them. People have this feeling all the time when
a person is right to ask their name and have a friendship with them. It has
happened to me I am on my travels somewhere, you automatically feel, that
person is appealing and you take a look in someones eyes and you see fake or
real, and when you can really understand each other and relate, that is the
type of friends you need. When you can relate to each other and when you can be
there for each other in good times and in the bad, when you can have many
things in common, share each others feelings, confide into each other. It the
best type of friendships to have. Not so much the quantity of friends, but the
quality of the relationship you have with your best friend or your closest
friends. Its one special thing you all have in common together that nobody else
will really understand your inside jokes, your humorous personalities, your
outlook on life, the common interests, and finding a solid foundation to build
your trust among your friends. It is always a good idea to really analyze and
to really get to know people before you really jump into friendships quickly.
Give it time to become best friends, or very close friends.
The
worst thing you can do to someone is replace them, and feeling replaced by
others and tossed to the side. Some people find good friends for a year or 2 or
3, and then you become an old part of their life, so then they jump into new
friendships and toss you like yesterdays newspaper in the recycling bin. That
is how I feel sometimes and it is not a good feeling. Find someone who will be
by your side to understand you and your feelings and who will stay friends with
you forever and ever and not leave your side after a year to 3 years of
friendship. It is a crummy thing you can do to someone and that is not a good
trait. Unless that person is not who you thought you knew and if things happen
that are not good, then that is okay, but when you know you have not done
anything to hurt someone and when you know you haven’t ever said a mean thing
to that person or people, and get shafted, it is not a good thing. People need
to realize that doing this is not good.
Be
faithful and loyal with friendship, that will strengthen yourself and good
habits will always be remembered. Do yourself a favour and choose friends
wisely who will go to the ends of the earth for you and then naturally people
will help each other and everything will fall into place. Just believe and do it.
All the best in everything.
